Friday, March 30, 2007

U Can If U Think U Can - Normant V P - Part I

The name of Norman Vincent Peale might be familiar in our ears, especially for everyone who concern about self development literatures. Many interesting books have been written by him. However, there is one book that impresses me much. It is “You can Think If U think U can”. Seems, it’s a simple phrase, but by this phrase the author can successfully develop into qualified book. Why it is called as qualified one because I realized it could influence the readers in the way of thinking. The book contains of many opinions of the author while are supported by a lot of real experiences. In my point of view, the objective of the author is encouraging the readers to don’t give up easily and always to thanks to God in all circumstances. Many problems usually make us depressing, stress, and give up. Mostly people sacrifice their mind only to think why these problems happen, not to attempt figuring out the solutions from those problems. Besides, they sometimes blame to God why he has the heart to giving those. They feel that they are the only persons who have suffering much. These feelings become an ordinary thinking in our environments.

In his book, the author tries to remind the readers, that we are not the loosing one. However, people who have more suffering are available much. He tries to emphasize that God’s gifts are already a lot then what we have loosing in. he proposes the other ways of thinking. He tells that we suppose to forget why the bad circumstances happen and don’t let these embezzle your mind. But we should think clearly that whatever the problems are, we still could solve them. Don’t be afraid to face the problems, but face those bravely, and then find out the best solution. When facing the problems, the first respond is, doesn’t regret anything but think wisely and keep try for smiling looks like nothing happen. In other words, we should stabilize our emotions if the problems come.

to be continued

--wawan--
complicated...complicated...complicated

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Road to Success - Faiez H Seiyal

there is nice book, one of my lovely collections,written by Faiez H Seiyal, with the genre as self development . It reminds me 3 years ago, when I first time read that book. it was really impressed me much, due to it is really persuasive and written using th strong worlds. The author describes the whole book in pretty well arrangement. Starting from the guidance to identify ourself, followed by learning more from difficult environment and many failure experiences, then creating powerful vision, and ended by listing the the daily,weekly,monthly activities which could shore up our vision.
Besides , he also uses powerful statements from montaigne, edison, FD Rosevelt , etc to empashize his persuasion. he wants the readers should learn the unpleasant process from those figures. many sadness experiences are emerged in this book. the purpose is to strengthen the feeling to not give up easily even in the worst circumstances...
the other interesting point is he provides a lot of attractive forms. These forms would be used to summarize our identity, our vision, and our next activities would be...
Belong to all, i surely recommend for reading this book. to identify the book, here are the physical appearances of it :
1. yellow cover
2. in the cover there are draws such board, road, and direction..

ok, have a nice read ...

--wawan--
complicated...complicated...complicated

Monday, March 12, 2007

My premise about Fair

Guys and girls, actually i 've inspired by all so i am able to propose this unworthy premise about

Fair :
"Fair is zero value from integral value of qualitative or quantitave function to time (t) in the interval range life time (t_life) until time after death (t_afterlife) where the function modle and the end limit of time couldn't be determined , excepted by Almighty God (Allah) "

--wawan--
ordinary is sometime powerful

Reflection Two - Consistancy

Hehehe wawan...

Feeling that u have learnt manythings....
Feeling that u have had more self confidence...
Feeling that u have experienced more

Yeah that is wawan.
Should I have those feelings? when where and in what circumstances...it's questionable from me and for me too. We have already known that those feelings are difficult to be measured, and relative too.

Let's set up a scenario ... when we are in embarrasing circumstances...for example our boss or our supervisor mocks us because in discussion we are lack of idea or asking some foolish question. At that moment , we'll feel that we are stupid one that haven't learnt anythings. sometimes we would depress and loss our spirit and our self confidence.
However, when we are in the situation that our supervisor show a proud for us because we have argue some good opinions. Our reaction would be positive, feeling that we've produced good thinking, feeling we've learnt more, and we would have more self esteem...

When u resume the scenario above. that feeling it's situational or dependent. in my opinion that feeling is normal, and for my current condition i still have that kind of feeling.
I think that we could improve that feeling and trying be confidence in all circumstances...don't lose ur spirit and still keep learn more from anythings and anywhere...

--wawan--
inspired by motivation books

Monday, March 5, 2007

Today Task Fulfillment

Yes, it amazing that i could wake early in the morning than before. I woke up and could prepare many things well. My activities schedule has been written well and I was just ready for struggling for the day.
When I am able to fulfill what i scheduled before, it's make really satisfied. Feel that I has great works. In the evening when all of my main tasks have already completed, i feel so tired but i could have a rest with smile...
Really,i'm really happy because i could fulfill my task

Sunday, March 4, 2007

Reflection One - Questioning Ur Self

Oh God, sometime i feel i'm the lucky one. but sometime i don't know how to make benefit from ur blessing. Feeling vulnarable one because of many inputs , many thoughts , and many things. I'm on the way in my journey...journey to explore more and more experiences...i don't always think that those experience will be useful or not ...but sometime s believe there are hidden secrets behind those ...just my thought can't achieve...can't conclude to ...oh God the almighty one ...please give me strength stance to belive that.

How to realize ur real life ...wawan... it's rethorical question...u always would be dealing with that question...actually when u face problem...u will try to figure out what's wrong with ur life by questionning...

How to manage your problems...it's always that ur problems related with ur weaknesses...what is ur signature strengths...there ara many question doubting about ur's life...

Those questions above make u life and make u a normal human, don't give up in journey for answering those questions, because not giving up is our duty while u stil don't are there an answer or when will come the answers ...

--wawan--

feel so strange when my mind sharply drop...